I believe God has a perfect person in store for each and every one of us. I am not a religious person and I actually didn't even grow up going to church or anything like that. I literally have zero religious conditioning in this lifetime (as far as I know). But, I've gotten to a place in my life where I feel I've received divine guidance about what a relationship is really about and I now believe there is a perfect soul match to each of us and our soul purposes have a purpose together. So here are some things I've found are very important if you want to manifest your lifelong divine partnership: 1. You have to believe God has a perfect soul to your soul who is also manifesting you. 2. Change your beliefs about the opposite sex: If you're a heterosexual woman I highly recommend you reconstruct your beliefs about men. We pick up a lot of negative beliefs about men and I'm not saying you can't find evidence for those beliefs, there's plenty! But if they're not what you want then you need to rid those thoughts from your mind as soon as possible. There can be layers to this because we do live in a patriarchial society, where there is a deep history of men having the power and money in the physical world, but women have always had power too, it's just been less focused on. The feminine power is not lesser, it is just different. I had a revelation about my beliefs about men recently. It's going to sound silly when you read it (maybe) but it's true, ok here it is, I used to think men didn't have feelings and they don't care about mine. It was an unconscious assumption, and as I said before, yes we can find plenty of evidence for this, but if I'm trying to manifest a healthy relationship then I need to believe men have feelings and they also care about my feelings right? I think I assumed men didn't have feelings because they show them and talk about them less than women do, also the assumptions I created about my father and brother were along those lines as well, they don't care about how I feel and they don't have feelings of their own, they just don't care. So I've been focusing lately on seeing men as feeling beings as well, just like me and I've been projecting that they do care about me. They may not outwardly show it the way my female friends do, but that doesn't mean it's not going on inside them. Anyways, it seems to be working. Well, thoughts manifesting is always working. :) But as you can see this belief probably made me unconsciously hurt men's feelings in the past because I was assuming they didn't have any. And, there are other factors at play, society conditions men to be feelingless. So the best way to help is to tune into and be sensitive to their feelings, the ones they may not be showing or expressing, but they're under there. Ok, so you have to figure out what assumptions you're making about men that are not what you want. May my example trigger a lightbulb for you about what unconscious assumptions you may have that are preventing you from having healthy relationships with men. If you're a heterosexual man desiring to manifest your divine partnership, I recommend changing your beliefs about women as well. Notice what you project onto her, what do you assume about women in general? Are you over sexualizing women? Do those beliefs support her highest good? Become conscious of these things and then change your thoughts and project onto her what you're desiring to manifest in your relationship. I'm not a man so I don't really have any examples, but I think men are conditioned to focus on women's sexual attraction more than how he actually feels about her. Everyone is unique in what they believe though. Looking deeper at your attraction to a woman, being curious about her intentions, her beliefs, her soul purpose and if she is genuinely the right partner for you. You never have to sacrifice a passionate sexual attraction in your divine partnership, but you also have to manifest the fullest expression, sexual attraction, emotional connection, mental connection and spiritual connection. You get to have it all, but you have to create that vibrational reality in yourself first. 3. You have to be embodying your soul purpose: I believe in order to manifest your highest soulmate, your life long partnership, you have to be living your soul purpose. This might not be true for everyone, but I think when you get to a place of knowing who you are and you're sure about what your purpose is on this planet, THEN and only then are you ready to add another person to your reality. Dealing with our own psyche is complicated enough and if you're not sure about what you're doing with your life, you don't really have the space to be in a committed relationship. It takes a lot of self knowledge and other knowledge to be in a relationship. Like I said one psyche is challenging enough to understand and now if you have two psyches always interacting in your reality, now you have a big party, add kids and boom! Here we have the state of the world. Everyone's psyche is very busy. 4. Financial Freedom: I believe when you are aligned in your soul purpose, you know who you are AND you've manifested financial freedom, then you have the space for your divine partnership. As long as we're not fully empowered with money, especially as women there will always be the temptation to be with a man because he can provide for us, and although there's nothing wrong with that, sometimes it can hold us back from embodying our own soul purpose and we can make unclear decisions about who to be with simply because we don't have our own sense of financial freedom. As long as you are able to make your decision as to who is right for you from a place of financial freedom, then I think it's all good, but if our survival needs aren't at ease, then we can settle in a relationship with a man simply because he provides. If you're committed to growth then that relationship may come to an end at some point and this blog post is about a life long partnership, one that will not end. Sometimes people do grow together, I don't rule that out. In conclusion, these are things I've discovered that optimize the space in our life for a real, lasting relationship. As always, every relationship is felt from our relationship with our own psyche/mind and from there, we meet another.
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As empaths sometimes we forget that we have the ultimate control of our focus.
We easily get wrapped up in what others are feeling and we easily get wrapped up in how others respond to us. But as we get busy doing that, we overlook our inner control. The inner control that can choose to focus on what's best for us. It is possible to be in control of what you empathize with and the reason this isn't selfish is because everyone is whole, complete and sovereign on their own. It's much easier to live in a world where we depend on our inner connection to source for empathy than to need it from others. Yet, there's also nothing wrong with needing or wanting empathy from friends and your support system, it's inevitable part of being human. Yet, these are ideas to play with, ideas for expansion. Empathize more with your own consciousness and your own focus. Empathize consciously. You are not obligated to empathize with anyone or anything. The reason you're not obligated is because they have their own connection to source and their own power. See them as capable to manifest everything they want. They don’t need your empathy anyway. Empathize more with who you are becoming and who you are becoming will get more of your energy. The more you realize the felt sensation of who you are as consciousness beyond the body/mind, the more deliberate control you will feel over what manifests in your physical objective world.
I know it doesn’t seem like it, but everything is manifesting out of your pure consciousness. Your pure consciousness is empty of quality, but it’s an invisible power that says yes to everything you believe and imagine. When you’re in control of what you believe and imagine then your ability to manifest deliberately gets so strong. We won’t always be merged with pure consciousness because most of us live lives that require us to be focused on our separate self, but you sure can be there more often and you sure can do certain things (yoga, meditation, sensory deprivation, counseling, coaching, nature etc)and stop doing other things (focusing on what is, perpetuating the realities you don’t want etc) to help you know yourself as pure consciousness more often. Affirm it with me: “Everything is coming to me through my consciousness. I trust the power that brought me here.” I am reminded of this at certain times on my journey.
That I'm not really after the things, the money, the cars, the houses or the trips. (but I mean I also am)...stay with me... I'm after the ability to manifest my desires supernaturally. The true prize is to be able to crystalize my desires into form in the most optimized way. Money is a big part of that in this world. If you don't have infinite money at your finger tips, manifestation can be more challenging. Allow money to be that for you. Where ever you are in your journey with money, there is always another journey to take. Maybe you've manifested a lot of it through struggle and hard work and you want to have more of a spiritual relationship with money now. Or maybe you're just getting started as an entreprenuer and you are learning the vibration of creating money through your gifts. Or, maybe you're working a job and receiving a capped pay and you're ready to manifest more abundance through your job or other opportunities. Either way, spirit has an uplevel available with you and money. There is infinite abundance available to you at all times. You just have to be open to it and remove the thinking/states of consciousness that block it. Money is a spiritual thing when you are a spiritual person because it is an extension of your infinite spiritual abundance. Even though I do desire to manifest the things, I also like the ability to unmanifest the things when I feel the need to release the past. Just because I manifested the money for a thing doesn't mean I need to hold onto it. More money and more things can always be manifested out of my state of consciousness. My focus is on my state of consciousness and my soul's growth. Infinite Money, Ultimate Freedom is my mantra. Anything and everything is just another appearance coming out of the nothingness that we are. You can start over anytime and you can assume a new state of wealth at anytime. You are the creator. |
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April 2024
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